In preparation for marriage, I think every husband-to-be should take a day-long class in Cosmetics. This would give him basic knowledge to make appropriate remarks after the wife spends an hour getting ready (such as “good job with the eyeliner!”, or “you were right, this nicer brand sure makes a difference!”).
When I told my husband that on the way to church, he just laughed and reverted to typical generic comments like “you’re pretty” (which shouldn’t count as much after you’ve asked for them :).
Why is it that women care so much about the details? I mean, will anybody really care what kind of lipstick I use? Who stops and analyses our faces inch by inch, except for ourselves?
But the truth is, it doesn’t matter. I never agreed with that concept that women only try to look good for men or to compete with other women. Plain and simple, girls like pretty things. And if we like to see cuteness around us, why wouldn’t we want it on us?
I’m a stay-at-home mom, so most of the time, only the kids see me. When I first started, I thought it’d be silly to fix myself just for a baby, so I often didn’t. But years into this, I’ve learned of what a mood changer it can be to look presentable even before getting the kiddos. You know, the “put your oxygen mask on before helping your child” concept :). Makeup is mommy’s soothing balm – I’ll be much less cranky if a glance at my reflection isn’t scream-worthy.
That said, it isn’t a coincidence that all of my Chrismas gifts (the ones I had any say in) have been pampering related. And in honor of High Five for Friday, I decided to do a beauty special one.
5. Clinique 7-Day Scrub Cream
I used this thing first time last night and afterwards felt like I’d done a fancy microdermabrasion treatment. I thought, “no way this can be used 7 days a week.” Well, according to their website, yup, that’s the deal! Amazing. If you want to feel like you just had a facial every single day, get this!!
4. Clinique Almost Lipstick in Black Honey
LOVE the “almost lipstick” concept. It’s supposed to merge with the natural tones of your lips, how cool is that?? My sister (the same one who gave me scrub) gave this to me saying it’s famous for working with any skin tone. I bet it does! The color could not be more awesomely neutral. Plus, it’s impressive how light or dark you can wear it – feels as light as a chapstick, but gets dark like lipstick if you keep putting it on.
3. Ulta Gift Card
Ok, this isn’t a product, but it’s the promise of products, which works for me! Can I just say too that I have the best sisters in the world – the oldest gave me the scrub & lipstick, and the middle one gave me this passport to Heaven. Because you know, whenever I enter Ulta I definitely hear the angels singing. And they seemed to be directing me to the next top two items…
2. Benefit’s Gimme Brow
I’ve been flirting with this little tube for quite awhile. I even read a Bible verse one day that reminded of this brand ha ha – “Blessed be the Lord, who daily loadeth us with BENEFITS (…)” – so for a moment I was like, it’s a sign! :). But I always ended up deciding it was a not-so-necessary luxury. Well, that was before I’d been gifted with Ulta credit! And I’m so glad I did. This looks a lot more natural than my eyeliner on my sparse eyebrows (and I think there’s less of a risk for me to look like a mean latina lol).
1. Chi Flat Iron in Lacy Azure
Isn’t it gorgeous?? If my hair looked half this good, I knew it’d be worth it. Of course, it totally was. Not only it did a better job than my other Remington one, it lasted longer. Not to mention that it makes the 30 min. plus routine of straightening my hair a little more bearable – because like I said, girls just like to look at pretty things. Is there anything wrong with that? No, amidst Christmas lights, I say no, there isn’t :).